I find that life is full of little victories, and we don’t even know it. Maybe. I call it, “delightful coincidences”, more less defining how we feel when things go our way. For example, about a week ago, I misplaced a hair band; an inanimate object that I wouldn't necessarily miss unless I thought about it. I might miss it if I needed it to go with an outfit I wanted to wear. But I'm thinking Wow! What a senseless mindset; to think life won’t go on unless I find that stupid hairband. That is such an anil mindset, (in my opinion of course) it makes my brain hurt. But seriously, I have come to the sad conclusion that people throw fits, we have meltdowns, we throw tantrums! We are allowed! I have had a few myself, but, to be honest, seriously, we are all 1st graders in big bodies. Or maybe it is, we sometimes act like 1st graders and don’t mean to act in such a manner, (in public that is). Btw, I am allowed to critique because I teach 1st graders and I know all about throwing hissy fits, trust me, I know! As adults we are entitled to have tantrums, but it is best to throw them in private, where only you and the walls can appreciate the swearing and prolific energy bashing! I speak for myself when I say my life is not overwhelmingly blissful today. I am grateful for little blessings that are as obscured as finding a hairpiece, little niceties are a very “find” thing, when you least expect them. I wasn’t jumping for joy when I found my hairband, because I knew it had to be somewhere, however, I “find” that I was happy it showed up. Niceties show up when you least expect them, so be thankful for them. That’s my story, I’m sticking to it.
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